Hello Ladies,
I hope you are all having a great week. It is almost done!!
School is almost done....YEY.... I can't wait to sleep in
later than 6:45am....
Ok question time. Do you as a blogger publish all comments?
Do you publish only positive comments or do you publish all or
do you pick which ones you choose to post?
I publish comments that are both. I do not publish a one
time commenter who finally leaves her first comment but
it is an insult in polite wording. Why should I post a comment from
someone who has never even said Hi to me but
now deciedes to leave a negative comment. Then
when I don't post it, sends me another comment but
totally insults me some more. I have posted negative comments
from some ladies who have told me they don't like the
color of polish or the designs or the shape of my nails.
I have posted them why because they have left comments
before not just to try to hurt my feelings but are
giving me constructive criticism. I am ok with that.
But this is my blog, I do this for me, I love having you
here looking at my nails but I don't need to let this blog
become a negative place for me or the ladies who come
here looking to see pretty things. I hope that the
ladies who come here are looking for creativity ideas,
not negative atmosphere. This is my opinion and mine alone.
I am sorry if you disagree or if I loose some followers
due to my honesty or my beliefs but I will always be honest
here and direct. I do not go to a bloggers website
look everday or just one time, never ever leave
so much as a hello only to leave a negative or insulting
comment on her blog. I would never ever be hurtful in
that way to anyone. I want to be treated the same
way I treat the bloggers I follow or read every single day.
I wish you all a great weekend. I hope to see you again.
Nicky
P.S. I hope to get my camera back on Monday,
a family member took it for vacation.
Thanks
from some ladies who have told me they don't like the
color of polish or the designs or the shape of my nails.
I have posted them why because they have left comments
before not just to try to hurt my feelings but are
giving me constructive criticism. I am ok with that.
But this is my blog, I do this for me, I love having you
here looking at my nails but I don't need to let this blog
become a negative place for me or the ladies who come
here looking to see pretty things. I hope that the
ladies who come here are looking for creativity ideas,
not negative atmosphere. This is my opinion and mine alone.
I am sorry if you disagree or if I loose some followers
due to my honesty or my beliefs but I will always be honest
here and direct. I do not go to a bloggers website
look everday or just one time, never ever leave
so much as a hello only to leave a negative or insulting
comment on her blog. I would never ever be hurtful in
that way to anyone. I want to be treated the same
way I treat the bloggers I follow or read every single day.
I wish you all a great weekend. I hope to see you again.
Nicky
P.S. I hope to get my camera back on Monday,
a family member took it for vacation.
Thanks
10 comments:
Luckily I've never had to deal with negative comments yet but it seems to me it would depend on the negative thing she said! Was she insulting to you personally?
I publish all comments except anonymous comments. I don't allow anonymous comments simply because I feel strongly that if you have the balls to say something to someone, you need to have the balls to back it up with a name. :)
This is going to be long.
I dont post all comments. If I have someone who comes to post one that just says hey nice blog follow me blah blah. Or thats nice html blah. Thats going in the trash because first of all they dont follow me second i have never seen them comment before. Granted I did it like my first week but I just feel wrong doing it if the blogger doesnt request you to.
Of even if they blogger says not too and YA still post it, that's no manners whatsoever and your doing that solely on the benefit of you. Then I wont follower you and I wont post your comment and your still at step one.
I just started blocking because I just have been getting a lot of html links lately. At first it was cool and I didnt have a problem with it but then every comment thereafter was links. I already follow half of them why post a link? But thats a preference.
Next neg. comments I actually had my first on Makeuptalk, it was one of those poliet neg ones, I couldnt erase it but I had 4 follow up comments from other women that were soo nice so it equaled out.
If it is harsh then its not going up there-it usually only takes one! I dont want that upsetting me or my followers evertime I see it. Criticism is different if you say you wont wear it=cool, if you say you'd change colors=cool, If you say its ugly and why do I even have a blog blah blah=get out!
Its basically treat me how you want to be treated. And after not posting your comment and you insult me some more I have a block button I know how to use it.
In the end it's your blog, your honest and have an amazing creative heart! You can't please everyone but you damn sure dont have to put up with fugley ppl.
So if that fugley prs is reading this, please come to me with that crap-you messing with Nicky you messing with me and the rest of the Kind hearted Bloggers!
xoxoxo
Miki
hey nicky :)
i publish all comments and so far i have not yet received any negative comments. if i ever do, i don't think i am going to keep it. i will delete it instantly if it was done in poor taste. but like you if someone tells me that i suck at writing but also tells me why or gives me a tip or two, then i guess i will be okay.
you are a hundred percent right. it is your blog and you can do whatever you want to do with it. if something breeds negativity, then take that thing out. if a comment depresses you, then delete it right away.
i personally love reading comments. it is like knowing that you are appreciated. i love comments whether they be a simple hello or a novel [like the one i am writing now!] lol.
don't mind those people. stay happy!!!
http://www.nailsbykatevergara.com/
Thank you ladies for leaving comments about this. The comment I got was a negative jab veiled in a nicely worded phrase. Then the next one I got because I didn't post her comment within a 12 hour period was a flat out insult so... I hadn't made a choice as to posting it yet, it was her second comment that helped me to decide not to post her comments.
I do not agree that just because she left her name that it is ok to post insults about people. I have had three in the 1.2 years posting so it doesn't happen often but when it does it does bother me.
I do not insult anyone here at all. I have made two comments about two different woman who have been in my eyes out of line. They have never made contact before, but felt the need to send me these types of comments for what? What do they get out of it? It wasn't hey I like your blog but your polish this week sucks. Or I loved last weeks mani but this week what were you thinking?? I would so get that, but to just come here and say I hate what you did, or wore or put on or choose to post or shape of your nails... Than no I don't think I have to post that crap and nor should anyone else. They aren't paying me, they did not send me stuff, they are fellow bloggers who keep hiding behind the "We are a very tight community and we stick together and we welcome all new bloggers" Crap but apparently that tight community is for members only and I did not get a membership.........
As I said earlier about this type of situation I left high school a long long time ago. I do not need to return, I like having followers yes, but if they don't like my comments or posts then I am not forcing them to return. THere is no need for any of the bloggers out there who are talking about me on Twitter as per the first insulting letter I got or for them to keep coming here to see what I do next so they have something new to twitter about. They should worry about their own blog and leave the rest of us alone.. I said I was going to take the high road on this and keep quiet but apparently keeping quiet somehow means for the sharks to come out. Well come on!! I am here come and get me!!! If you want my phone number so we can discuss this in person you know my email. Otherwise stay off my blog and I will do you the same favor. This is my last mention about this, and for the record if you are just leaving me a first time comment and it is an insult you will not be published put your negative comments about me on your own blogs that way I don't need to be part of it. Eventually the rest of the blogging community will see you for the type of person you are, people always find out. I am not worried about that.
i hope this will be the end of it and if not please do not think I am going to hide tail and stop blogging....I am going to keep on posting even if I only have two followers...I do this for my fun. My pass time..
I wish you all a wonderful weekend..
PS Something else that burned me today my UPS delivery from Head2Toe didn't get delivered today....AGRRRRR
Nicky
Mine is open for all comments. I don't have time to look over comments and decide what to allow and what not to allow. My comment section is open for everyone.
some people can be so mean. the world will be much better without them!
just today i had a delivery but when the guy arrived, we were still asleep. grrr. i was able to reach the guy on time, by his mobile so my hubby met with him half way. sigh. i am a certified nail art addict now.
check out my blog to see my new plates! wwweeeeeee!!!
I've haven't had a negative yet, but I allow all comments to be posted. If people have something negative to say, I want everyone who reads my blog to see what that person said.
i post all of my comments, i think this is the right way :-D
it's not fer if you just say she was malicious, you should post her comment, if you're right you've got nothing to be afraid of... just remember, if you like something that doesn't means that the rest of the world should do the same :-)
@nail crazy, there is no right or wrong way about posting peoples comments..(I'm soo sorry Nicki but I couldnt help it at all. The devil made me do it LOL)
It's personal preference. Fair is in the eye of the beholder. In Nicky's eye the woman might have been malicious at the same time your not her and your view might be slightly different :-D
No one is saying their "scared" she is just sick of haters with their positive-negative comments. THOSE are the people that are scared running to facebook and joining a little hater club. It's highschool all over again and it's sad really... =/
And that last part of that sentence Woah!! "just remember if you like something that doesn't mean that the rest of the world should do the same =) ???
She said she "likes" critcism in her blog post and the returning reply, its the people who write hateful things about her that's different and that crosses the line, that's the problem. Not every blogger is going to like another blogger things hell half the time I dont like the things I right lol jp but half the time I'm compelled to write everything.To be just me God made me this way (wow just sounded like Lady Gaga) an if someone doesn't like it that is why they have eyelids and backsides. Close ya eyes and turn around and get to stepping.
Nicky you are right 100% why? Because it's your blog, why because you have a voice. You don't have to go anywhere that would give them the satisfaction, I should open a damn Account where we can post all these people and their comments *evil laugh*HAHAHAHAHA But seriously if this "We are a very tight community and we stick together and we welcome all new bloggers" If they treat you like that I got two digits I'm showing the peace sign and going to Nicky's group.
That's alright because if you have two followers left it's me and Sis Kate lmao!
@Ice Queen: Yeah a name? shhhhii Not good enough! I want a name, phone number, address-and a schedule of when ya home so I can...oh wait damn... too hood (u can go to jail for that right?)
Well I think I can die in peace. Nicki-Bless you in everything you do, and bless you for having the courage to come forth with this. Have an awesome weekend and I look forward to seeing ANOTHER nail post from you soon.
xoxoxox
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